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Bullying is a social phenomenon related to teen agers. Bullying is a form of abuse. It comprises repeated acts or actions of aggression or violence.
The power
imbalance may be social power and/or physical power. The victim of bullying is
sometimes referred to as a target.
Bullying
behavior may include name calling, verbal or written abuse, exclusion from
activities, exclusion from social situations, physical abuse, or coercion.
Bullies may behave this way to be perceived as popular or tough or to get
attention. They may bully out of jealousy or be acting out because they
themselves are bullied.
The types of physical
aggression include shoving and poking, throwing things, slapping, choking,
punching and kicking, beating, stabbing, pulling hair, scratching, biting,
scraping and pinching.
Indirect bullying is characterized by threatening the victim into
social isolation. This isolation is achieved through a wide variety of
techniques, including spreading gossip, refusing to socialize with the victim,
bullying other people who wish to socialize with the victim, and criticizing
the victim's manner of dress and other socially-significant markers (including
the victim's race, religion, disability, etc). Other forms of
indirect bullying can be name calling, the silent treatment, arguing others into submission,
manipulation, gossip/false gossip, lies, rumors/false rumors, staring,
giggling, laughing at the victim, saying certain words that trigger a reaction
from a past event, and mocking.
Adults who
bully have personalities that are authoritarian, combined with a strong need to
control or dominate, self-esteem of bullies has produced equivocal results. While some bullies are arrogant and
Envy and
resentment, depression, personality disorders quickness to anger and use of force,
addiction to aggressive behaviors may be motives for bullying.
School
bullying
Law prohibits bullying of students
In schools,
bullying occurs in all areas of school. It can occur in nearly any part in or
around the school building, in PE, recess,
hallways, bathrooms, on school buses and waiting for buses, after school activities. Bullies taunt and tease their target before physically
bullying the target. Targets of bullying in school are often pupils who are
considered strange or different by their peers to begin with, making the
situation harder for them to deal with.
One student
or a group can bully another student or a group of students. Bystanders may
participate or watch, sometimes out of fear of becoming the next victim.